Maybe I'm Dreaming...: DECISIONS, DECISIONS...

DECISION, DECISIONS.......

Life, a wonderful, almost fantastic miracle that has been given to us for enjoying every second of it. The basic thing to learn about it is that, decisions are a important part of life, always with no exceptions and no intermediate situations. Second thing to consider outstanding in this miracle is your one, unique attitude and perspective we decide to give to every scenario that life bring us to, the secret to succeed lays in always remembering that everything it's going to be fine in the end, if it's not OK well, you can be sure it's not the end.

Truth is what really makes the difference between happiness and routine are decisions, since the very beginning, the day we were born, decisions have been made for us and life seems so easy and perfect. Once we grow up, life gets a little tough because we need to decide for our own good.

So the real question here is what to do when a decision involves not only mind, but also heart has a say in it? What if that thing we want the most is no longer good enough for our mutual happiness? To be divided between heart and soul is one of the decisions everyone has to face every once in a while, but seriously what is up with the pathological need of people to complicate even more this kind of situations?

Let's face it we need to figure out one way or another an answer to this problems that causes the insomnia in us. The answer to these kind of problems should be simple, logical, rational and with a little bit of passion in it. It's quite simple: either you say yes or no, you want it that way or you don't, there's no room for "in-the-middle" choices, because this one's just will lead to pain, hate and eventually heartbreaks and I bet everyone runs away from all of this ones. Making this choice can be the harder part of all the process, but once we make it, peace is starting to fulfill our dreams.

So once the choice is done stick to it no matter what, if it ends up as a mistake you'll learn from it and I can sure tell you: people will change and things will go wrong, but the secret is to just calm down and remember life goes on, if it ends up as a success then you'll be getting a little closer to your happiness. Don't ever forget to be completely positive, enthusiastic and always remember that every 60 seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back and of course life should be worth every smile we can get. Well, at the end, the important thing is to have the courage to always say what you want to say because; those who matter won't mind and does who mind don't matter.

From my experience I can honestly say that while striking in with these types of decisions, I've always been sure of this universal principles: we should always learn to forgive but never forget, we should love what we've got but always remember what we had and we should never ever give up on the things that once make us smile.

Recently, I was placed in a position where I didn't know what was really best for me, you always said you care about me, made promises you weren't able to keep, gain my heart with the most beautiful words you never meant, kept secrets from me that you don't even know I know about, took me to dream dates and made almost perfect my days but, seriously if you did all of these while your heart wasn't ready to fall in love, or at least gave mine a try, then tell me what's the point in making me choose between my heart and mind if you're not ready for a life like mine?

I've always been told to never ever, leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like, will leave you for the one he love, and maybe that's my mistake, most of the time I led my heart decide in this situations when it should be an alliance of heart, mind and soul the ones who should really decide what's for the best. So for now I choose me and myself, I'm setting you free to search the world for another me you won't be able to find. Just remember that one thing here is true, I always meant the things I said or do.

"Everyone has their own destiny, but not everyone makes the choice to follow it".